As a dancer who has been dancing since 6 and a half and competing since 7, I never knew the struggles that come with a passion. Although dancing is often considered an art form, it should also be recognized as a sport. The hard work, determination, and dedication it takes to become an amazing dancer aren’t spoken about enough. The toll being a dancer takes on your body also isn’t as recognized as it should be.
Looking in a mirror at all times:
Looking in a mirror? Your body image and dysmorphia about your physical appearance changes drastically throughout the year/years when having to stare at your face and body in a certain kind of uniform or clothing. Unfortunately, when I am at dance, looking in the mirror makes me realize the things I’d like to change about myself and my body, instead of admiring what I love about myself. It is hard enough already as a teenage girl to always be confident and loving towards myself, while meeting certain expectations.
Perfectionism:
I always grew up wanting everything to be my way. But not in a selfish way, in a perfect way. If something didn’t happen, I’d get up and try again, but instead of wanting to work on myself, I’d get angry at myself for knowing I could do better. Being in dance teaches you the potential you are capable of, or even what you could be. When dancing, there are certain placements, positions, faces, etc, that you should be making/doing. When not done correctly, you get disciplined, which can be taken off the stage, performance, section, not given another chance, etc.
Time Management and Commitment:
As a child in school, with extracurricular activities, time management, and commitment are key when it comes to anything. Teams, jobs, roles, etc. Although school always came first in my family, I was still able to commit my time to my dance team, as well as doing extracurriculars within my school. Organization also comes into play with time management and commitment. Staying committed is the most important thing. If you decide not to love a sport, check out once the season or year is over. It’s what’s best for your team. If you know you can’t commit or manage your time right, it’s better for you and the team to maybe find something else.
Comparison:
Comparison for me is one of the biggest hardships during dance. It is hard to be something special and strive to be the best when there are people better than you or who bring you down. It is really important to know your capabilities and talents. If you really want something, you can let comparison take it away from you. Comparison is the thief of joy. So, in order to feel comfortable and happy in what you’re trying to achieve, you cannot compare.
Jealousy:
Jealousy in the dance world isn’t talked about enough. Everyone has been through it. It is hard when the only thing you love to do, there is someone better than you at it. Even people younger than you. It’s hard not to want what you could’ve been. Or what you can be and you’re not there yet. If you want to be the best, there are people you have to work towards, but it is difficult not to compare or feel jealous because of what you don’t or can’t have. Or even what you didn’t do, what you could’ve done.
All in all, dance is my passion. Although it comes with many struggles and challenges, I still want to work towards being my best self, as should all other dancers who dedicate their time and energy, and money to dance. Dance is my life, and I have learned to take in everything that comes with it. It is worth it for me.
